How to Prevent a Potential Rape Attack From a Desperate Man: Tips That Might Work
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How to Prevent a Potential Rape Attack From a Desperate Man: Tips That Might Work

The incidences of rape are common worldwide. While the man is often blamed for rape cases, there are ways that ladies could prevent or totally avoid such rape incidences. Quite agreed the man that wants to carry out such a crime is often desperate and could go to any length to have his way. However, being desperate notwithstanding, a rape can be avoided or prevented altogether, even when you are face to face with the intruder; unless of course he is a psychotic killer or hardened criminal but we donÂ’t pray for such a scenario.

The incidences of rape are common worldwide. While the man is often blamed for rape cases, there are ways that ladies could prevent or totally avoid such rape incidences.

Quite agreed the man that wants to carry out such a crime is often desperate and could go to any length to have his way. However, being desperate notwithstanding, a rape can be avoided or prevented altogether, even when you are face to face with the intruder; unless of course he is a psychotic killer or hardened criminal but we don’t pray for such a scenario.

Most rape incidences and offences are from those we know very well; our friends, relatives and close ones. Rape incidences from total strangers while they happen are actually not common occurrences. In this article, I will show you how you can prevent a rape before it actually happen. You will find out how to conduct yourself to take away such thoughts from his mind and how to prevent it when he is about carrying it out.

Preventing the Thoughts of Rape In A Man / Date

Yes, rape incidences can be prevented. Often times, after a rape incidence, the victims start reflecting what they could have done to have prevented the warranted or unwarranted rape. Below I have given tips to prevent rape; but it is left for the ladies to apply such tips; no matter how uncool they might appear.

  • Dress sweet but don’t flaunt body parts.

Most men get excited and their hormones get to an unprecedented peak when they see a naked body or parts of a naked body that is supposed to be kept private. When you are on a date, avoid skimpy skirts or skimpy dresses known as “show me your tummy” or any revealing dresses at that. This will only suggest to the man that you are interested in an intercourse. When eventually his libido gets high, your pleas and cries will only likely fall into deaf ears and hence rape.

  • Don’t flirt or engage in foreplay when you are not ready

Some girls flirt a lot; tapping his lap, pecking him; showing him exposed boobs and rolling those eyes. The man will only get the idea that you are ready to get down. Stick to the rule of not allowing smooching; romance; fingering and anything involving the pulling off of clothing unless you actually want to have intercourse. It is always very hard for a man to think straight when the hormones have taken over. Believe me, your pleas and cries will only likely fall into deaf ears.

  • Avoid meeting in an hotel room; private places or spooky joints

When you meet a man alone in a hotel room and you know quite well he is interested in having sex with you; then he will believe you are interested in the act. Meeting him in his house or room or going with him to smoke pot or sniff cocaine in spooky places or clubs might also get you raped. Any girl that does this will most like get rape and refusal to accept advances will make you look like a teasers and incite the man’s desires more.

When His Hormones Go Crazy

Well, the above are things you could do to prevent the rape before it actually takes place. What if you are already in the environment and all his hormones are shouting ‘sex! Sex! Sex!?’ what do you do in such a case?

Though this case is a little bit scarier than the former, you could still do some things about it. It is not a guarantee but some persons I spoke with (ladies who escapes rape and some unfortunate ones who were actually raped) agreed that the following could be done to prevent the rape or make the man come to his senses. The following are tips that might help out.

Tips To Help Prevent Actual Rape Scenarios

  • Never beg the potential rapists

Don’t ever beg a rapist. This only excites and incites them the more and shows that you are powerless and fearful. Even if you are scared, don’t show it. Scream at him and pick a weapon; if one is close by. Don’t hesitate to use it on him. This is the only thing that will scare him off. If you are already naked; then may God help you. In such a situation, there will be little you can do other than scratch him; and you will be powerless when they are two or more.

  • Destroy his properties

If the potential rapist is just one person and you are in his house, damaging one or two of his expensive electronics will most likely work to your favor. A young lady told me she faced such a situation and she smashed the young man’s plasma TV, and then picked up the home theatre to also smash. The man came quickly to his senses and that’s how she prevented been raped.

The best way to prevent been raped is to avoid situations that will get you raped. Avoid taking drinks in spooky places. You could be drugged; even by the most trusted and sweetest guy.

I sincerely hope that all the ladies and women out there will read these articles; especially mothers and prevent rape incidences.

Further Reading and Sources

http://www.wikihow.com/Prevent-a-Potential-Rape

http://drkathleenyoung.wordpress.com/2009/09/06/how-to-prevent-rape/

http://womensstudies.homestead.com/tipsformen.html

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Comments (5)

Well Daniel this is an eye opener and I agree that your tips can be a life saver. Personally at my age and maybe too old to fight so I may have to shoot him.

Ranked #7 in Wellness

A warning like the Daniel of OT. Thank you dear Daniel.

Ranked #1 in Wellness

You have some great points of significent value within your well presented article. I have always thought some of these things and so totally agree with most mentioned.thank you!

Hmm I would worry that breaking property would make him more angry... You really have to be able to "read" your attacker.

Serious and important article. Excellent -- voted up.

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