To some couples, the quest for sexual wellness is like the proverbial Holy Grail. The bedroom life of most seemingly happy couples would surprise you and give you the jitters for days. Things are not good for most couples; but achieving a happy sexual life is not that difficult. There are some basic little additions and subtractions to make things go well and give you are a healthier relationship.
When it comes to matters of sexual nature, many are quick to hide their heads beneath the pillow. However, the importance that sex plays in our lives cannot be ignored. There are countless numbers of persons whose marriages and relationships have crumbled because their sexual lives suffered.
It is about time we look into matters of sexual nature when it comes to our wellbeing and the survival of our relationships. Sexual wellness, though often neglected by many a people is perhaps the most important aspect of any relationship.
In this article, I am going to open the bedroom door and show you what happens there and how you can actually revive your bedroom blues and put some real magic into your sexual life. Sexual wellness is of utmost importance to every one; unless of course you are a eunuch, nun or completely celibate.
Bed Room Blues and Ordeals
If you were to have a peep into the bedroom life of most seemingly happy couples; you would be shocked at what you will see. But we are not going to do that here; no room for perverts. However, there are some traits or factors that actually make achieving sexual wellness or a healthy sexual life for most couples seem like a wild goose chase.
Monotonous sexual life style could be really sexually draining for you and your partner. No matter how well brought up you might want to appear, putting some little innovations and tricks into your sexual patterns could go a long way to creating that happy sex life you so desire. Instead of the conventional and traditional missionary style (man on top) that is so common, you could try sometime else. You would be surprised how happy your ceremonious looking partner will be.
There are couples who don’t have time for their sex life. It could be as a result of a tasking career life or because of monotony or bitterness for the partner; or just plain punishment. This is really bad. For whatever reason, lack of sexual activities for couples is a sure sign of a sick affair.
Some couples abuse the other. When your partner is not in the mood and you go ahead to forcefully have your way, this is abuse. When you engage in aberrant sexual behaviors that are displeasing to your partner, this is abuse. When you involve in marathon sex that injures your partner, but he / she has not choice than to oblige you, this is abuse and a sure sign that sexual wellness is lacking.
Bringing In The Magic Into Your Sex Life
The following tips should help in putting that extra spark back into your sexual life and thus aid in ensuring sexual wellness.
Yes, trying new sexual styles, no matter the age is a sure way to livening up your sexual life. Put aside the missionary style of lovemaking for a while. Make use of ice cubes, honey, the ice and even some bit of love in the kitchen, swimming pool and bathroom. There is no harm in been sexually happy and fulfilled as a couple.
- Make love with some respect
Respect your partner. If he / she is not in the mood and you happen to be in the mood for sex; do not force him / her. Try to find out why the mood is not there. If you ask pleasantly, your partner would gladly give in just to make you happy. There is no need for selfishness in the bedroom. Then make love; not as animals but with dignity. By dignity, I mean don’t abuse your partner. Don’t tie him / her up unwillingly like some wild animals. I believe you get what I am saying.
Some couples distance from each other immediately after sex. This is not encouraging. Sex is not some impersonal act. Hold each other even after fulfillment. Laugh together and peck your partners’ ears and nose. Just cherish the glow of after sex. It binds partners together. Relieve the moment and cling to each other.
- Make use of that honey or cream
That bottle of honey and ice cream could really go a long way to making your love making extra sizzling. Don’t ignore them. Show some innovations. Honey on the body or ice cream on the body and getting it licked up could be really titillating.
Have things been going wrong in your sexual life? Are you concerned about your sexual wellbeing? Are things going bizarre in the bedroom? Worry no more. Try some of the tips above and see how things go.